Friday, March 9, 2012

Advice for female orphans. Part 2

Stay independent. I know when you are on your own you really want someone to take care of your etc. But you don't want to be trapped or taken advantage of. Even if you do get married always have a place you can go if things go bad. Like a friend or even a second apartment.

Most normal women can always visit their parents. But you don't. The last thing you need is a boyfriend or husband threatening to throw you out.

1. Always have your own apartment.

2. Never move in with a guy. Stay independent.

3. Earn your own money and save in case of emergency.

Remember that you deserve better.


kumar said...

if u real a orpahane i m ready to marry u. im 30yrs old from india no father only a 70yrs old mother one brother. u can call me on

Tim B said...

I really like your advice. Us guys need to follow the same advice as well. It's been really emotionally tough not having a family. I've gotten to the point where I refuse to date and or be close to anyone who has family. I give family support, but can't receive it the same way. Noone knows how it feels to not be have a safe place to call home if all else fails. Noone to be grounded to. Being too emotionally strong can turn out negative. It can make a person emotionally needy and vulnerable. I've become all business and no play which has made me a dull boy. But I do a great job of covering it up. People have no idea how miserable I am.

Anonymous said...

This is great advice for all women really. I don't know how old you are but you are very wise, and thanks for your posts.