I finally tried to take a Greyhound bus to Philly. But the bus ride didn't go too well. And the bus misssed my transfer in St. Louis cus it was late and my relatives weren't too happy either. So I decided to go back home to Tulsa. I had grown very close to a friend there and he offered to drive my back to Tulsa from Philly.
But based on all the things that have happened in the past. We really shouldn't have to take crap from people. If you boss is mean to you then do something. Get a new job or say something. Don't suffer. Don't wait hoping that people will change. This is your life. You deserve to enjoy it.
If people are rude to you at a grocery store....go to different one. If you relatives won't accept you for who you are...then move on. Be yourself and forget them.
When people are nice to you then you can try to trust them and love them.
But most importantly just don't take peoples crap. Do what you want to do in life.